How to Use Hookup Sites If You Travel to Get Laid in Other Cities

If you live in a small town, you’re probably going to have to travel to get laid. This can be a bit of a problem for both you and your fuck buddy. The potential problems that are likely to arise include the following…

  • It can become expensive for you and/or her to travel long distances for regular sex
  • If you’re unable to get together regularly, you and/or her will become sexually frustrated
  • It’s time consuming to frequently travel long distances
  • She might feel uncomfortable traveling outside of her own city to sleep with a guy she met online


5 Ways to Overcome Distance Problems

I hope I haven’t scared you away from signing up for a dating site to get laid. Although the problems above can be frustrating, there are certain things you can do to avoid them. Here are 5 tips to help you overcome distance and have the sex life you’ve always wanted…

Have More Than One Partner

If you take our advice and sign-up for 2-3 of the recommended dating sites, you’re guaranteed to have quite a few women to choose from. Since this isn’t a traditional relationship, what’s the big deal with having 2-3 partners? Between the 2-3 women, you can travel to have sex with one on certain days and have another travel to you on other days.

 Traditional relationship

Traditional relationship

Tell Your Women To Have Multiple Partners

Why must you be HER only guy? As long as she’s clean and not a total slut, you shouldn’t have to worry about contracting any STD’s. Besides, you should be wearing a condom anyway. If you can’t come to see her regularly, she’ll remain sexually satisfied if she has multiple partners. There will always be someone there to service her.

Carpool

I know of some men that hookup with women online and carpool with a buddy that’s doing the same thing. You can split the cost of gas. You’ll save money and you’ll have a traveling companion to make the drive more entertaining. Plus, you can brag about your sexual conquests on the drive home.

hookup with women online

hookup with women online

Plan Ahead But Be Willing To Road Trip On A Whim

Plan your booty call schedule out in advance if you’re going to her. She should do the same if she’s coming to you. But there are times where she may want you to come to her on short notice. Just because she’s far away doesn’t mean you can’t hop in the car and see her sometimes. Obviously, it’s nearly impossible for anyone to stop what they’re doing and travel hundreds of miles to get laid on a regular basis. So try to plan ahead as much as possible, but also be willing to go to her on short notice at times.

Plan your booty call schedule

Plan your booty call schedule

Dealing With “BDSM” Type Girls You Meet On Hookup Dating Sites

One of my first encounters with a woman I met on a hookup dating site was a girl that was WAY into BDSM. For those of you unfamiliar with BDSM, it stands for Bondage Domination Sadism Masochism. It’s basically a fetish that involves a roleplaying lifestyle. Within the BDSM community, there are hundreds of different types of roleplay activities. Each person’s preference on a type of roleplay is different.


When I met this girl, I was inexperienced with BDSM. In fact, I was completely clueless about what this lifestyle involved. After she began explaining her fetishes, I started thinking “damn, this chick is one sick fuck”. She liked being tied down and beaten severely with a cane. My momma taught me to never hit a woman, so I was a bit put off by it.

I thought about just ignoring her because I wasn’t into that sort of stuff. But she was smokin’ hot and I wanted to bang her, so I figured I would do whatever she wanted just so I could get down her pants. The first time we met, she had me dominate her. I got no pleasure out of it, though I did end up getting laid. So there was a benefit to it. But here’s the problem – I felt really weird doing it. It just wasn’t my thing and I really didn’t want to do it again.

The BDSM community

The BDSM community

BDSM Women NEED The Lifestyle

The problem with hooking up with a BDSM fanatic is she’s addicted to the lifestyle. Sure, she loves sex too, but if she doesn’t get her fix of whatever BDSM related fantasy she needs, she’ll become frustrated. Those into BDSM consider the rest of us “Vanilla’s”. However, a BDSM girl can have a pleasurable sexual relationship with a Vanilla. Sometimes they just want a good fuck without all the roleplay. Besides, not every BDSM encounter ends with sex. Often times, it’s nothing more than roleplay and nothing sexual is involved. So how does a Vanilla that refuses to get into BDSM establish a sexual relationship with a BDSM chick?

Sexual relationship with a BDSM chick

Sexual relationship with a BDSM chick

Tell Her to Sign-up For a Fetish Dating Site

I’m not a member of any fetish sites. I prefer sticking with hookup adult dating websites. But I do know there are plenty of sites out there that are specific to a certain fetish. Have her sign-up for one of those sites, meet a guy that can give her the BDSM lifestyle she needs, and have her come to you for sex only. Heck, she might even have success just posting an ad in the casual encounters section of Craigslist.

Don’t be rude and tell her you think her fetish is weird. She’ll never speak to you again if you do. I let the girl I was hooking up with know that I can’t possibly give her what she needs because of my lack of experience. Then I told her I wanted her to find someone that can, but still come to me for Vanilla sex.

Hookup adult dating websites

Hookup adult dating websites

And if that doesn’t work….

Man-up and learn the lifestyle! You never know, you might actually grow to enjoy it. And if you don’t…ditch the bitch!

3 Tips To Get Her Talking About Her Fantasies

Have you ever had trouble telling your partner about your fantasies? Women have the problem as you do. We all have certain fantasies and fetishes that we don’t advertise to the whole world. Men and women are afraid of what others will think if their fantasy is non-vanilla. In a traditional relationship, if the man is afraid to tell his significant other about his fantasy, he will seek out a fetish dating site and get some action on the side.


If you have a specific fantasy or fetish you so desperately crave, and you’re not receiving that in your sex life, you’re going to be frustrated. For example, let’s say you’re the type of guy that enjoys being submissive but you don’t have the balls to tell your partner. She’ll continue expecting you to be play the dominant role during sex, which will leave you unsatisfied. You might enjoy the sex but you’ll always be thinking you need something more.

Women feel the same way. They have certain fantasies they want to act out but are often too afraid to tell their partner. Women are very self-conscious and often suffer from a lack of self-esteem. If you want to please her to the fullest, you better be willing to allow her to act out her sexual fantasies. But before she can do that, you have to get her to open up to you about those fantasies. How do you do that? Here are 3 ways I’ve had success getting my women to open up to me…

Sexual fantasies

Sexual fantasies

Share Your Fantasies First

Be bold and let her know what you’re into first. Just the fact that you’re sharing your own fantasies will make her feel comfortable and will get her to open up. I should throw some caution to the wind. Don’t bust out your fantasies and fetishes right away. Get to know her a little bit. It might annoy her if you go too in-depth about your sexual desires before you’ve broken the ice.

Even if you share your fantasies with her right away, she’s still unlikely to share hers with you. She’ll need to trust you and feel comfortable talking to you before sharing such secretive information. However, you should discuss fantasies before ever meeting. That way you’ll know if you’re going to be a good match in bed or not. Sex is always better with likeminded people.

Sexual desires

Sexual desires

Tell Her You’re Open Minded

On the very first discussion you have with her, let her know you’re an open-minded guy. Tell her you want to explore new sexual fantasies. Women will open up to a guy that she knows is open-minded in bed. On one occasion, I let a woman online know right away that I was an open-minded guy and she immediately responded with, “I have always wanted to have sex with a guy in a fireman’s outfit”. And, yes, I did do her many times with a fireman’s outfit on. Whatever floats her boat!

Sex with a guy

Sex with a guy

Play Truth Or Dare

Truth or Dare is a silly game, usually played by horny college students. But it’s a great bedroom game. Get naked with her and tell her you want to play Truth or Dare. When she asks for a “Truth”, ask her to share her deepest, darkest sexual fantasy. It’s amazing how openly women will speak about their sexual desires when they’re playing Truth or Dare.

Should You Lie To Her? Little White Lies Explained

The advice I’m about to provide should NEVER be followed when you’re out looking for a long-term relationship. In my regular relationships, I’m very open and honest with my woman. I believe no real relationship can exist if both individuals are dishonest with each other. However, a friends with benefits relationship is a bit different.


A FWB is based mostly on a physical connection. Since that’s what you’re after right now, the following advice is for men just looking for a sexual relationship. They say that honesty is a virtue. Some people even believe in bullshit karma that if you lie to a woman it will come back to haunt you. But will that “karma” come back to haunt you in a FWB relationship?

How a Lie Can Come Back to Haunt You

I will concede that lying, even with a fuck buddy, could come back to haunt you. How so? Let’s say you lead her on to believe you have an 8-inch penis, eat pussy like a champion, and love cuddling after sex. Then you meet her, you whip your dick out and it’s 5 inches long, you have no idea how to stimulate her clit, and you refuse to cuddle for more than 5 minutes after sex. That will be the last evening she has sex with you.

Sexual relationship

Sexual relationship

How a Lie Can Help You Out

There are times where lying is your only option to get laid. The girl you’re trying to go for would never go for your true self. Like I said above, I would never want to be in a dishonest emotional relationship. But why on earth would I care if she’s not into the real me if all I’m looking for is no-strings attached sex? I’m still going to receive the same pleasure if she thinks she’s fucking someone else.

In the case of a man that isn’t attractive to women but still wants to get laid, he needs to make himself appear more attractive. He can do that by leading her on to believe he’s wealthy. Even middle-class men can appear rich. All you need to do is buy a few expensive outfits and be willing to take her out for one expensive evening just to make her think you’re not cheap. Women are attracted to money. They would have sex with a $100 bill if it were possible. The only time this doesn’t work is if you’re dead broke or live in a shithole and want to have sex with her at your place. If you find yourself in that situation, tell her you have annoying roommates and must get it on at her place.

Sex with her

Sex with her

Should You Lie to Women?

Yes, you absolutely should unless you’re the most amazing guy ever. All you have to do is hide your lie well. It’s not that difficult in this type of relationship. Women that are just using you for sex aren’t going to spy on you or chase you all over town. They don’t care about specific things about you. They just want you to be able to please them. And they need to be attracted to you in order for that to happen. So, yes, you should tell a few lies in order to make yourself appear more attractive.

 Type of relationship

Type of relationship

3 Creative Date Ideas If You’re Broke

There’s nothing that sucks more than being broke and wanting to get laid. I’ve been through that dozens of times. It’s a frustrating experience because we all know that even fuck buddies like to be taken out on a date before sleeping with us the first time. A few years back, I was in bad shape financially. I could barely afford the membership fees for my online dating sites. I met a girl online and wanted to bang her. The only problem was I didn’t even have enough in my bank account to take her out for drinks. So what did I do? I told her to meet me at a freaking park so we could “walk and talk”. Needless to say, I didn’t get laid.


I decided that I needed to be a little more creative. I didn’t have any money but I knew I wasn’t going to get laid if I didn’t impress women. So I had to think outside the box. The next few dates I took women out on, these are where my cheapass took them…

Bought Cheap, Tasty Food and Cooked Dinner

I didn’t want her to know the reason I was inviting her over for dinner was because I was broke. I talked up my amazing cooking skills and told her that I wanted to prove them to her. This worked out perfectly because she was already at my house and it’s a 10-foot walk from the kitchen to my bedroom. I bought cheap pasta noodles, some cheap pasta sauce, mixed in some tasty seasonings I had for added flavor, and made a pretty darn good dish. I put the grub on my fanciest chinaware to give it a nice appearance.

She loved the food and we shared some great conversation. By the end of dinner, we were ready to hop in bed and get it on. The evening couldn’t have gone any better. She had no idea I was broke. She just thought I really wanted to cook her dinner. I’m smooth like that!

Women loved the food

Women loved the food

Dessert and a DVD

Women love to cuddle. Women love men that love cuddling. Personally, I don’t care much for cuddling but I do know how easy it is to go from cuddling to fucking. So I played off being a “great cuddler” when chatting with this hottie. Since I couldn’t afford to actually take her out, I told her I’d love for her to come over, watch a movie, and cuddle.

When she arrived, I made her a hot-fudge sundae. I spent maybe $10 on the food and made the sundae look and taste like the bomb. After dessert, we popped in a horror flick that I knew would have her scared. Less than 15 minutes into the movie, I had her clothes removed. I went from boring cuddling to having making out in a matter of minutes.

Women love to cuddle

Women love to cuddle

Happy Hour At a Lounge

Certainly you can come up with $20, right? Pick a lounge that has great Happy Hour specials. Tell her you need to meet her at this time because you’re “busy” later on. Buy 2 drinks for you, 2 drinks for her, and get the hell out of there and back to your place to fuck. Just the fact that you were willing to buy her drinks will ensure she doesn’t think you’re a broke ass. Most places won’t even cost you $20 for a couple of drinks during Happy Hour. Gather up your spare change if you must.

Couple of drinks during Happy Hou

Couple of drinks during Happy Hou