The advice I’m about to provide should NEVER be followed when you’re out looking for a long-term relationship. In my regular relationships, I’m very open and honest with my woman. I believe no real relationship can exist if both individuals are dishonest with each other. However, a friends with benefits relationship is a bit different.
A FWB is based mostly on a physical connection. Since that’s what you’re after right now, the following advice is for men just looking for a sexual relationship. They say that honesty is a virtue. Some people even believe in bullshit karma that if you lie to a woman it will come back to haunt you. But will that “karma” come back to haunt you in a FWB relationship?
How a Lie Can Come Back to Haunt You
I will concede that lying, even with a fuck buddy, could come back to haunt you. How so? Let’s say you lead her on to believe you have an 8-inch penis, eat pussy like a champion, and love cuddling after sex. Then you meet her, you whip your dick out and it’s 5 inches long, you have no idea how to stimulate her clit, and you refuse to cuddle for more than 5 minutes after sex. That will be the last evening she has sex with you.
How a Lie Can Help You Out
There are times where lying is your only option to get laid. The girl you’re trying to go for would never go for your true self. Like I said above, I would never want to be in a dishonest emotional relationship. But why on earth would I care if she’s not into the real me if all I’m looking for is no-strings attached sex? I’m still going to receive the same pleasure if she thinks she’s fucking someone else.
In the case of a man that isn’t attractive to women but still wants to get laid, he needs to make himself appear more attractive. He can do that by leading her on to believe he’s wealthy. Even middle-class men can appear rich. All you need to do is buy a few expensive outfits and be willing to take her out for one expensive evening just to make her think you’re not cheap. Women are attracted to money. They would have sex with a $100 bill if it were possible. The only time this doesn’t work is if you’re dead broke or live in a shithole and want to have sex with her at your place. If you find yourself in that situation, tell her you have annoying roommates and must get it on at her place.
Should You Lie to Women?
Yes, you absolutely should unless you’re the most amazing guy ever. All you have to do is hide your lie well. It’s not that difficult in this type of relationship. Women that are just using you for sex aren’t going to spy on you or chase you all over town. They don’t care about specific things about you. They just want you to be able to please them. And they need to be attracted to you in order for that to happen. So, yes, you should tell a few lies in order to make yourself appear more attractive.