Dinner and a movie is the old-school first date routine. This is one of the worst first date ideas if you plan on getting laid. Not only are they time consuming activities, they are mentally draining. She won’t even be in the mood by the end of the movie. She’ll be ready to hit the sack. Here are three first date ideas that won’t make her want to go to sleep. They’ll make her want to go sleep…with you…
A Quiet Lounge, After Dinner
This is the absolute best first date idea if you want to get laid. But there are ways to screw it up. If you go to a bar that’s too loud, it’s difficult to work your game on her. She’ll have a hard time hearing you. Also, if you get too drunk or she gets too drunk you’ll burn out and either won’t be in the mood or won’t be able to “perform” well later on. Plus, some women aren’t too keen to doing a drunk guy.
Pick a lounge that is quiet and intimate. Meet her there after dinner but before the late night rush. The best type of lounge to select is one with comfortable chairs. It’s even better if there are couches. The reason a comfortable lounge works best is because you’re in a relaxed environment. Don’t get drunk, but have a drink or two. This will help both of you relax. If she’s relaxed and you’re doing a good job charming her, you will get laid.
Dinner At Your Place
Going out to dinner (and a movie) is a horrible idea because it takes too long. You should have a goal to get her into your bed within an hour or so. If you wait much longer than that, you run the risk of her losing interest or no longer being in the mood. Another great first date option is to invite her over to your house for dinner and, well…you know what afterwards!
By cooking her dinner, you can have the grub fixed before she even arrives. And you can control the menu. If you go out to eat, you have to wait for a table, wait to be served, wait to pay your bill, and who knows how much food she will eat. If she orders a big meal, she’ll feel stuffed and won’t be in the mood. But since you’ve got her at your place, you won’t have any of those worries. You can control the menu (cook something light) and there won’t be any wait. This works best if you dim the lights, pop open a bottle of whine, and light some candles. Yes, even women on hookup sites like to be romanced.
Out To A Club
This is definitely 3rd best on the list, but it works well for those of you that like to dance. If she’s big into clubs, take her to a fun one. I never suggest a guy go out to a club to meet women because they’re too loud and crowded, but if you’ve already chatted with her (online), you’ve already got your girl picked out. Meet up with her first at a quiet lounge and chat for a few just so you know you like each other. Then head to the club.
Why do I think this works well for people that met on a hookup site? Because there’s nothing sexier than bumping and grinding on the dance floor. That will get anyone in the mood. If you suck at dancing, don’t go to a club, or if she’s not into the club scene. If you are, bump and grind with her for a while, get your hands all over her, and then whisper into her ear, “why don’t we go back to my place?”