How many times have you heard a woman say she just wants a nice guy and then ends up with a complete douchebag? Every woman claims they want a nice guy. Want to know who actually dates nice guys? Fat chicks because they can’t get anything else. When you’re out looking for a hookup, you need to have a little swagger to you. You must show women you’re confident, strong, and aggressive. Let’s take a look at the characteristics of most “nice guys”…
- Opens doors for women
- Is always there for her when she needs him
- Allows women to make decisions
- Is quiet and reserved
Those aren’t signs of a confident man. They are signs of a guy that is a pushover. Women don’t like guys that are pushovers. They like men that are aggressive and decisive. Let’s say you’re chatting with a girl online. Your strategy is to play the nice guy routine. She’s also chatting with a confident, aggressive guy (yes, attractive women have tons of guys after them at once).
You’re trying to show her what a nice guy you are. You talk to her for a few hours over Instant Message and end the chat with a “I can’t wait to talk to you again, beautiful!” Aren’t you just such a sweetheart!? At the same time, the confident guy has already asked her out for drinks. Why would she sit around waiting for you when she’s already been asked out?
Nice Guys Are The Biggest Pussies I’ve Ever Met
Women on hookup sites are attracted to strong, aggressive men. You don’t have to be a complete dickhead, but it’s better to be an asshole than a nice guy if you plan on getting laid. When you’re done hooking up with random women, you can go back to your nice guy routine. That will serve you better when looking for a long-term relationship.
The fact of the matter is nice guys are pussies. They bend over to women. It’s supposed to be the other way around. Women like manly men. They find nice guys to be weak, which is very unattractive. Nice guys just don’t have sex appeal. Most women have a submissive mindset. They feel a guy should take control. Nice guys defer to a woman.
Nice guys are also easy to walk all over. You think women want a man they can walk all over? Think again. They want a guy that won’t always take their shit. A guy with high self-esteem and confidence knows he doesn’t have to sit there and take it from a woman. He knows he can go out and find someone else.
Be confident. Don’t let women walk all over you. If she’s being a bitch, tell her you’re not going to put up with her shit. Women respect that. The old saying that nice guys finish last is almost always true when it comes to hookups. 90% of women will fuck a total asshole before she’ll fuck a nice guy. Nice guys are the men they consider “just friends”. Every time their asshole boyfriend treats her like shit, she goes to the nice guy friend to complain about him. I even know women that can’t stand cocky bastards, but if she thinks he’s hot, she’ll use him for sex. It’s just the way it is. I don’t make the rules!