You have a few options on how to present yourself on your hookup profile. You can go the hopeless romantic route and try to attract the rare woman that’s looking to get laid AND meet their Prince Charming. That’s probably the worst idea you could ever have. Another bad idea is to go the perverted route by turning your profile picture into a close up of your junk.
The better option is to portray yourself as confident, sexy, intelligent, and interesting – with confidence being most important. Confidence IS sexy. Ask any woman and she’ll tell you that an average guy with confidence is a HOT guy. Here’s a few tips on how to be confident on your dating profile…
- Say specifically what you’re looking for in a woman. Don’t say you’re not sure what you’re looking for. This shows indecision, which is probably the result of a lack of confidence.
- Speak highly of yourself without being too arrogant. You don’t have to mention you have the biggest cock on the site. But you should never speak negatively about yourself.
- Say things such as “I will” do this and that. “Will” is a small, yet strong word that displays confidence in your abilities.
What Works and What Doesn’t Work
Because I want you to avoid making costly hookup dating profile mistakes, I’m going to show you both profile strategies that work and don’t work. I’ve sorted the do’s and don’ts into separate categories, so you’ll know exactly how to fill out your dating profile to ensure you receive great response…
DO:Talk openly about your sexual desires in a mature manner. For example, if you’re looking for a woman that is into BDSM, mention that in your profile. It’s okay to express the sexual desires you have.
DON’T: Be a complete pervert. I realize you’re just out to get laid. But you’re not going to attract women if you’re disgusting. Saying shit like “I want to stick my cock deep down your throat and cum all over your face” is quite perverted. Guys that have profiles filled with this nonsense aren’t sticking their cocks down anyone’s throat.
DO:Mention things outside of the bedroom that you’re into. Women like to get to know more about you than just your meatstick. If you like to play sports, you can feel free to mention that in your profile.
DON’T: Go into great detail about your interests outside the bedroom. Women just want to know you’re not a psycho and have your act together. They don’t care to know specifically where you work, how many homeruns you hit on your Beer League Softball team, etc. Save that for relationship dating sites when you’re done fucking random women.
DO: Create a fantasy for women. Imagine yourself as someone women fantasize about. Think Steve McQueen, James Bond, The Fonz, Vin Diesel, etc. Women want to fuck those guys. They go to bed fantasizing about having sex with men just like them.
DON’T:Try to just be yourself. I’m not saying there’s anything wrong with you. You’re probably a good dude. But very few of us can legitimately attract hot women on these sites if we be ourselves. Want to know what type of women are looking for guys that will “be yourself”? Women looking for a long-term relationship. So not the women on these sites.
DO: Prove that you have game. Use smooth lines in your profile that are catchy, witty, and creative. Women love a man with a sense of humor. They’re attracted to funny guys.
DON’T: Attempt to become a Pick Up Artist. PUA advice sites are a complete joke. The guys that give that type of advice NEVER get laid. Neither do their “students”. Women don’t like cheesy pickup lines. They like a man with CONFIDENCE. Confident men get laid. Men that try to act slick do not.
Top 3 “Interests” to Write When Creating a Perfect Dating Profile
We’ve tried about 65 million different “interest” section lines. Okay, maybe not exactly 65 million, but you get the point. Of the many lines we’ve used, here are the 3 most effective ones…
Sex isn’t just a hobby for me – it’s a lifestyle. But not in the way you might be used to. My biggest interest is YOUR pleasure. I could sit here and tell you all about how I love sports, music, movies, gambling, and traveling. And I do love those things. But what I really love most is to please a woman.
Instead of taking long walks on the beach, I prefer to take short walks to my bedroom. I like those short walks even more when there’s a beautiful woman waiting for me in my bed. Oh, and yeah, I like to golf, drink beers with the fellas, and cuddle after sex. Yes, that’s right, I DO love cuddling after some good sex.
There isn’t anything I’m more interested in than a woman. Not just the look, feel, and smell of a pretty girl. I like everything about a woman. From her sexy voice, to her nice smile, to the way she does her hair. I even like it when a woman sticks around for a while after sex. I sort of enjoy the after-sex, laying in bed together routine.
We Tried 20+ Profile Descriptions, But Only Had Great Success With These 3
This may seem odd on a site like this, but I’m a very caring guy. No, I’m not some sort of hopeless romantic. I’d be on Match.com if I were. But I’m not the type that only cares about myself in an NSA. Your pleasure is just as important as mine. I NEVER want you to leave unsatisfied and am willing to make sure, each time, you get what you deserve.
I’ll be straight and to the point. I want a woman that is confident, knows who she is as a woman, and can take charge. Most guys are very dominant in the bedroom, but I prefer being submissive. There’s just something about a dominant woman that turns me on. Don’t take this the wrong way. I’m not some little sissy boy. But I have a fantasy of being submissive to a strong, attractive woman.
Some love me, some hate me, but no one knows who I truly am. That’s because I like to be a bit of a mystery. Why don’t you come try and solve this mystery? There’s a pretty sweet reward for doing so.